How to Use Isolation As a Time to Reconnect

Now that Gov. Abbott has officially closed schools across the state through May 4, it’s become clear that social distancing isn’t going away any time soon.

It would be safe to assume (right now) that with schools remaining closed, it probably means restaurants, gyms and all non-essential businesses will soon follow suit. In short, this means even more isolation.

And isolation isn’t good for us. As humans, we generally enjoy being around others, having community, participating with society and so on. Without that, I believe most of us are thinking, What on earth are we going to do at home for another month?

Allow me to suggest a potential positive: Using isolation as a time to reconnect.

I know, it seems counterintuitive, but think about it—this is a great time to make time to talk to others (something we usually let slip through our fingers because our calendars are so packed).

So how can you do this? Below are a few ideas from things we’ve done in order to reconnect with those we care about.

WITH FRIENDS, EXTENDED FAMILY AND NEIGHBORS:

Virtual Play Dates
This is perfect for those kiddos who keep asking when they can see their friends. Set up a Google Hangout, Zoom, Skype or your choice of platform and give the kids their time to catch up. Make this a regular occurrence so they have something to look forward to during the week.

Virtual Happy Hours
Mom and Dad need their time too. Set up a similar call with your friends, especially those that you haven’t talked to in a while. For example, my husband and I recently chatted with one of our couple friends in Philadelphia that we haven’t seen in ages.

Virtual Game Night
While you’re on one of the video chat platforms, get creative and use that time to play a game. This can easily involve the kiddos and include anything from charades to Pictionary.

Send Mail
If your older family members—such as grandparents—don’t live in the same house, have the kiddos create some art or write letters. You know the grandparents will be thrilled to receive some mail from their grandkids.

Have a Neighborhood Parade
Some of my family in Frisco recently had a safari-themed parade in their development. They decorated their car with animal prints and vines and drove around waving to those who were standing outside their front doors. It was a great way for the neighborhood to come together and provide some positivity. (I mean, when is the last time your neighborhood did anything like that?)

WITH YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY:

Use this extra time to reconnect with those inside your home. Yes, you’re seeing them every single day, every single hour right now; but that doesn’t mean you’re really spending quality time with them.

Take some time after dinner or before bedtime to: